Why Texting Beat Email: A Senior's Guide to Modern Messaging

Texting is now the preferred way to stay in touch. Learn how to send texts, use emojis, and stay connected.

Texting is now the preferred way to stay in touch

For many people 50 and over, texting has overtaken email as the go-to way to message family and friends. It’s quick, simple, and works on any phone. Here’s how to get started.

Sending a text message

  1. Open the Messages app (iPhone) or Messages / SMS (Android).
  2. Tap the new message icon (often a pencil or plus).
  3. Enter the person’s phone number or tap a contact from your list.
  4. Type your message in the box at the bottom.
  5. Tap the send button (usually an arrow or paper plane).

Texting vs. email

Texting is shorter and faster. People often check texts right away, while email can sit unread for hours. Use texting for quick updates, plans, and check-ins. Use email for longer messages or when you need to attach documents.

Emojis: a quick intro

Emojis are small pictures (😊 👍 ❤️) you can add to texts. They add warmth and tone. You don’t have to use them, but they’re fun to try.

  • On iPhone: Tap the emoji or globe icon on the keyboard.
  • On Android: Tap the smiley face or emoji key.
  • Common ones: 👍 (okay), ❤️ (love), 😊 (happy), 🙏 (thanks).

Group texts

You can text several people at once in a group. Everyone in the group sees the messages. Great for family updates or planning get-togethers.

  • When starting a new message, add multiple contacts.
  • You can leave a group if the messages get too busy.

Sending photos by text

You can send a photo in a text. Tap the camera or photo icon next to the message box, choose a photo, and send. Photos use more data than plain text — if you’re on a limited plan, keep that in mind.

Quick tips

  • Keep texts short — that’s the point. Long messages are better for email.
  • Don’t text while driving. Pull over or wait until you’ve arrived.
  • Be careful with links in texts from people you don’t know — they could be scams.